26 November 2013

When Denial Is Not Just A River...
Welcome back to my version of "The Neverending Story"...sans flying good luck dragons.
It's going to be another frosty day in Hoosierland with temps climbing WAY into the mid-30s...yepper, that's it.
At least the water dish I put out for the birds might not freeze back over AS fast.
Going to see mostly clouds today as well, with a good chance of slight snow flurries, but don't fret - no chance of ANY accumulation.
Still, it begs me to say that you should take care on the roads, streets and highways in the area, as black ice can (and will) cause problems while driving.
With that said, let's top off that warm morning beverage (I used scotch in mine) and see what's been going on since last we met.
*** First out of the garage today is that followup to the latest homicide (number 42 for the dead pool advocates)
Number 42
Now, I do find it extremely helpful  when the local media decides to do much of the work for me, as they did HERE:
http://www.journalgazette.net/article/20131126/LOCAL07/311269979
I have to admit I DO like the manner that J-G reporter, Jeff Wiehe describes the life and death of a young Fort Wayne SE side thug.
There is this marvelous duplicity at work here...and the kind that typifies most every homicide "victim" with a checkered past.
BTW, here is the rap sheet for the recently-deceased, courtesy of Indiana Public Records Department:
DEMETRIUS L. MASTERSON - male black - 5'9" - 170lbs
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02D04-0205-CM-003740  Masterson, Demetrius L 05/20/2002
Allen Superior Court 6 CM - Criminal Misdemeanor
Decided CARRYING HANDGUN W/O LICENSE  
02D04-0307-IF-009505  Masterson, Demetrius L 07/14/2003
Allen Superior Court 5 IF - Infraction
Decided FAILURE TO USE SIDEWALK  
02D04-0311-IF-018382  Masterson, Demetrius 11/25/2003
Allen Superior Court 5 IF - Infraction
Decided FAILURE TO USE SIDEWALK  
02D04-0312-CM-010509  Masterson, Demetrius L 12/22/2003
Allen Superior Court 4 CM - Criminal Misdemeanor
Decided NEVER RECEIVE LICENSE 
DISREG STOP OR YIELD SIGN  
02D04-0406-CM-004919  Masterson, Demetrius L 06/21/2004
Allen Superior Court 4 CM - Criminal Misdemeanor
Decided NEVER RECEIVE LICENSE 
UNSAFE MOVE LANE TO LANE  
02D04-0407-CM-005368  Masterson, Demetrius L 07/06/2004
Allen Superior Court 5 CM - Criminal Misdemeanor
Decided NEVER RECEIVE LICENSE  
02D04-0408-CM-006127  Masterson, Demetrius L 08/02/2004
Allen Superior Court 6 CM - Criminal Misdemeanor
Decided NEVER RECEIVE LICENSE  
02D04-0408-CM-006946  Masterson, Demetrius L 08/30/2004
Allen Superior Court 5 CM - Criminal Misdemeanor
Decided POSSESSION OF MARIJUANA  
02D04-0502-IF-000789  Masterson, Demetrius 02/04/2005
Allen Superior Court 6 IF - Infraction
Decided OPERATE WHILE SUSP (INF)  
02D04-0505-CM-002986  Masterson, Demetrius L 05/02/2005
Allen Superior Court 4 CM - Criminal Misdemeanor
Decided FALSE INFORMING (B) 
NEVER RECEIVE LICENSE 
FAILURE TO USE LIGHTS  
02D04-0507-MC-001357  Masterson, Demetrius L 07/20/2005
Allen Superior Court 4 MC - Miscellaneous Criminal
Decided P.C. POSSESSION OF COCAINE  
02D04-0507-FD-000477  Masterson, Demetrius L 07/25/2005
Allen Superior Court 5 FD - Class D Felony
Decided POSSESSION OF COCAINE OR NARCOTIC DRUG  
02D04-0602-IF-002602  Masterson, Demetrius L 02/17/2006
Allen Superior Court 5 IF - Infraction
Decided OPERATE WHILE SUSP (INF)  
02D04-0605-CM-003281  Masterson, Demetrius L 05/12/2006
Allen Superior Court 5 CM - Criminal Misdemeanor
Decided OPERATE WHILE SUSP (MISD)  
02D04-0607-MC-001323  Masterson, Demetrius L 07/05/2006
Allen Superior Court 4 MC - Miscellaneous Criminal
Decided P.C. POSS HNDGUN ALTER ID 
P.C. CARRY HDGUN W/O PRMT  
02D04-0608-MC-001722  Masterson, Demetrius L 08/21/2006
Allen Superior Court 6 MC - Miscellaneous Criminal
Decided P.C. DEALING IN COCAINE/METH 
P.C. REC STOLEN PROPERTY 
POSSESSION OF MARIJUANA 
P.C. DEALING IN COCAINE/METH 
P.C. DEALING IN COCAINE/METH 
P.C. DEALING IN MARIJUANA 
P.C. POSS CONTR SUBSTANCE 
P.C. POSS CONTR SUBSTANCE 
OBSTRUCTION CITY STREET 
P.C. POSS CONTR SUBSTANCE 
P.C. POSS CONTR SUBSTANCE  
02D04-0608-FB-000170  Masterson, Demetrius L 08/24/2006
Allen Superior Court 4 FB - Class B Felony
Decided DEALING IN COCAINE OR NARCOTIC DRUG 
DEALING IN COCAINE OR NARCOTIC DRUG 
DEALING IN COCAINE OR NARCOTIC DRUG 
POSSESSION OF A CONTROLLED SUBSTANCE 
POSSESSION OF A CONTROLLED SUBSTANCE 
POSSESSION OF MARIJUANA HASH OIL OR HASHISH  
02D04-0710-CM-006249  Masterson, Demetrius L 10/03/2007
Allen Superior Court 6 CM - Criminal Misdemeanor
Decided CRIMINAL TRESPASS  
02D04-0710-MC-002254  Masterson, Demetrius L 10/29/2007
Allen Superior Court 6 MC - Miscellaneous Criminal
Decided P.C. CRIMINAL RECKLESSN'S  
02D04-0711-FD-000923  Masterson, Demetrius L 11/01/2007
Allen Superior Court 4 FD - Class D Felony
Decided CRIMINAL RECKLESSNESS  
02D04-1011-MC-002415 NA Masterson, Demetrius L 11/09/2010
Allen Superior Court 4 MC - Miscellaneous Criminal (Citation)
Decided 35-42-2-2(c)(3)(A)/FC: Crim Recklessness-Shot Firearm Into Inhab Dwelling/
Other Gathering Place  
02D05-1011-FC-000266  Masterson, Demetrius L 11/15/2010
Allen Superior Court 5 FC - Class C Felony
Decided 35-42-2-2(c)(3)(A)/FC: Crim Recklessness-Shot Firearm Into Inhab Dwelling/Other 
Gathering Place 
35-47-2-1/FC: Carrying Handgun w/o License-Prior/Prior Felony w/in 15 Yrs/School Prop, 
School Bus 
35-42-2-2(b)(1)/FD: Criminal Recklessness (defn armed w/ deadly weapon)  
02D05-1105-CM-003091 NA Masterson, Demetrius L 05/24/2011
Allen Superior Court 5 CM - Criminal Misdemeanor
35-42-2-1(a)(1)(A)/MA: Battery Resulting in Bodily Injury 
Decided
=======ADDRESSES===
3721 Southwayne Ave
Fort Wayne, IN 46807
2510 John St
Fort Wayne, IN 46806
2910 Lillie St
Fort Wayne, IN 46803
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He was shot dead at someplace he didn't even live at (just cribbin')
Yes, this is that very same (as family members tell) man who was "...a fun-loving prankster, quick with nicknames for loved one, a joyful man who left his past behind him, made those around him laugh,  and a man who'd step up and be there when anyone needed him."
Okay then...so WHY would anyone want to kill such a WONDERFUL person. I mean this guy sounds like he should be nominated for a Nobel Peace Prize or something, doesn't it?
(Hmm...seems we already did that with someone not worthy of that prize...never mind then)
And if he did indeed leave "his past behind him"...it just wasn't far ENOUGH...was it?
I find it curious that he was the ONLY survivor of the TRIPLE SHOOTING at Rick O'Shay's back in 2010...and now HE'S dead, too. Like someone wanted to erase all trace of the incident, and who THAT shooter really was.
(bet'cha HE'S a fun-loving prankster, too, as I'm sure we'll find out when he gets killed)
Geez, with ALL these fun-lovers out here, who the hell would have the time to DEAL DRUGS, or smack people around, or be arrested for carrying a handgun without a permit?  You'd think this part of town would be FUN CENTRAL, right?
Well, it's about as far from THAT as East is from West at this point.
I'm sorry, but when you read about a white shooter, the family seems to have NO problem with coming forward and saying he had "Yeah, he had mental and anger issues", or "he CHOSE the life he led"...none of this denial crap that seems to follow those mentioned in this story.
And that's pretty damn sad...to have one's head SO far in the sand that they can't face (or speak) the truth when it stares them in their primate faces.
But hey, that's what develops over time in such "sub-cultures", isn't it?
Fortunately, it's only a minority OF the minority that have to face such things.
I say YOU read the article, and YOU make the call.
What amazes me is that FWPD PIO, Mike Joyner says it happens all over town (homicides)...so that MUST mean that Fort Wayne really ISN'T a SAFE place...right, Mike?
I thought the city managed to CONFINE such activities on the SE side only?
(I'm still thanking you people downtown for THAT!)
 Moving on...
*** Tis the season (again)...the season for ROBBERIES.
And here is the story link about such a thing at a local Burger Dairy:
http://www.wane.com/news/crime/burger-dairy-robbed-on-st-joe-river-dr
At least they left the DONUTS, Frank.
Two men took part in this armed robbery at the Burger Dairy located at 1450 Saint Jioe River Drive around 2300 hours last night (instead of the lone robber that took on Arbys up north yesterday morning, locking three people in the cooler), and managed to get away with an undisclosed amount of money (probably knew when the night drop-off would occur).
A FWPD K-9 unit was unable to get a track from the location.
No injuries were reported,and no suspect descriptions were forthcoming.
The same place was hit back in September and several times LAST year.
I'll bet any CCTV cams will show something.
All I can say is expect more of this to happen as the season progresses and the lack of arrests emboldens these perps.
*** Next up...never piss of a rising ghetto queen,and a former Snider High School track team member, and here's why:
http://www.journalgazette.net/article/20131126/LOCAL07/311269930/0/FRONTPAGE
Yes, this did take place on the city's...(...all together, people...)...SOUTHEAST SIDE.
What? You expected this to happen up in Pine Valley?
Welcome to FWHA housing!
Nadrica Sanders (that last name sounds familiar, too), armed with a pot AND a kitchen knife took out her anger on her BFOTM (Boyfriend Of The Month) in the 900 block of Oaklawn Court, slashing the victim's tires on a Dodge Charger and cutting his hand, along with trying to bash out the windows with the cooking pot.
Yeah, we need THESE off the street TOO!
Can YOU say "drama-mama"?
(dat girl crazy, dawg)
Yeah, THIS is what you get with an entitlement mentality...paints a nice picture, does it not?
Nadrica was charged with one felony count of criminal recklessness and endangering her boyfriend.
Maybe it's time they moved out of the apartments and into a real HOUSE instead.
That ALWAYS works...
NOT...!!!
At least she was SWINGING the pot (instead of smoking it as they always seem to do)
Maybe we should ask FWPD capo, Rusty York about getting all those CHEF'S KNIVES and COOKING POTS off our streets too?
Obviously THEY are also falling into the WRONG hands, right?
Nice to know that THIS complex (Chapel Oaks) is ALSO "government-sponsored"...see what YOUR tax monies will buy?
*** Lastly today, I mentioned DENIAL, and that's something too many people suffer from these days.
Even I, your blog-host am not totally immune to such things (and that's why I don't have a red "S" on my chest either).
Thing is, whenever denial rears it's ugly head in my life, I have the means to get it back under control.
It comes down to that balance of GAIN versus LOSS I mentioned in yesterday's post.
Denial will TIP that scale, and many times ever so slightly that we don't notice...at first.
It's when we come to enjoy placing our thumbs ON the scale and revel in the imbalance that we have issues.
If one were to wonder what to do under such conditions, I would point to the book of Proverbs in the Bible. Now, I'm not going into some religious diatribe...just pointing out facts.
Even if you look at this book from a historical or even philosophical viewpoint, you can learn MUCH from the wisdom in it.
And to DENY oneself of the ability to learn, and to understand, serves no earthly purpose, for our job every day is to become a better person than we were the previous day...isn't it?
Twain said it best - "Denial ain't just a river in Egypt", and we'd be wiser for believing that.
Be well, make a difference to someone, and...
Stay SAFE out there, America.

4 comments:

John DuMond said...

" I mean this guy sounds like he should be nominated for a Nobel Peace Prize or something, doesn't it?"

Well, they did give one to Yassir Arafat...

CWMartin said...

That is truly sad, if what the family said about the vic had a shred of truth. Sad because, why should he be able to show such love in his family "box" and such hate outside? Why, if he had enough brains to get his life together, couldn't he have done it before building a past that would catch up to him? Maybe if he had tried turning that love outwards, he'd be alive now. But clubbing is a dead end street, as is thuggery. Sadly, too many young people are content to live on it... while they can.

Bob G. said...

John D.:
I had forgotten about THAT guy.

I was thinking a bit more "recently"...like that poser-in-chief sitting in the Oval Office these days.

Still, a do-nothing is STILL a do-nothing, right?

Thanks for stopping by to comment.

Roll safe out there.

Bob G. said...

Chris:
There's something very odd about many of these "families".
They often view the universe as a 3-square block area...and that's about it.
Everything else OUTSIDE is ignored...except when it comes to crime.
THAT is something that is kept AWAY from those "3 blocks" whenever possible.
And yes, you are correct...so mahy of those urban "universes" ARE indeed dead-end streets.

Thanks much for stopping on by and commenting.

You stay safe (and warm) up there.